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Originally Posted by mynamegoes
The sheet specifically stated that to be eligible a PNM must attend 8 out 12 parties. Also I did notify The Greek Life Officer prior to the beginning out recruitment that I had i class that I would not be able to miss. She said I was fine. I spoke with the Rho Chis and they said I would be ok. that's just where I was confused. Also I go to a small not so competitive school if that helps. I tried a few times after this happened to go to the Greek life coordinator but she keeps blowing me off and saying you can COB. I was willing to prove I attended the parties. Honestly, I would have rather been cut knowing no one wanted me rather than knowing there are people who could of wanted to invite me but couldn't because of this mistake
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Didn't that already happen? Seems like your school keeps making "mistakes" and there are always extenuating circumstances with you. Just sayin'.....
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Originally Posted by mynamegoes
i was super exicted to rush i go to a small school with only 4 sororities and i only got invited back to one party it was the sorority i wanted but unfortunately i didn't get a bid. my friend(that i convinced to rush by the way) got a bid to another sorority but she really didn't even want it i know the sorority i was going out for is very competitive ... i feel like im an outgoing fun goodlooking person (i don't mean to sound cocky) im really heartbroken im new to this school this semester and i was looking for a way to meet some people. im not really shure how to deal with this i was really looking forward to it , has this happened to anyone else
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Originally Posted by mynamegoes
I am going to be a sophomore at my school in the fall. I rushed last semester but it did not really work out. There were extenuating circumstances and lots of girls did not get bids.I felt as though I clicked with a few of the sororities. I had just started there in jan and rushed in feb so I obviously did not know many people at school. Also my father passed away right after rush So I feel like it would have been bad timing for me to join if I had got a bid. But Honestly Is it worth rushing again in the fall. Do people hold it against you? I know its informal recruitment (not really sure exactly what the difference is). Is it worth it?
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Originally Posted by mynamegoes
it was crazy snowing that they cut recrutiment by like 3 days so no one really got much of a chance to really meet any of the girls. I can't say I have necessarily changed that much in the past few months . A few of the girls who where in sororities ( who I later on grew to know) told me that because of such a short recruitment many nice girls "fell through the cracks" I can't necessarily say it will kill me if i don't get a bid. I have had a lot of worse things happen to me this year. I guess I probably will rush again it can't hurt that much. Does anyone know how informal recruitment works though?
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