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ellebud, I agree that the scenario you paint is plausible and even likely, especially if a school uses RFM because if you have to cut someone and you have enough women that you DID meet to invite back. I can see collegians choosing not to take a risk and invite someone back who they didn't get to meet. That is different than what this poster seems to be saying.
It honestly sounds to me like the original poster may be confused about what she read because the "attending 8/12" sounds like a second round of parties in which the max number of chapters that could be attended would be 8. I can't imagine any campus saying that it's ok to only attend 8/12 first parties as a standard procedure. I can see them making exceptions due to class, but not actually putting a minimum number in writing. I've never seen a campus that said it was ok to NOT visit every chapter in the first round as a standard rule, even those with minimally structured recruitment.
As for these PNMs being told they are ineligible, I have to wonder if someone said that instead of saying "You were cut by all the chapters" because they just didn't know how to say that the women had no invitations.
All that said, I agree that the only way to clarify exactly what happened is for the original poster to talk to the Greek Life Office again.
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