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Originally Posted by MysticCat
Sorry I missed your posts earlier. To clarify:
I am not attempting to speak for Sigma Nu. I'm just not familiar with any fraternity tradition where being lavaliered creates a connection with the fraternity, as opposed to symbolizing a connection with the members of the fraternity, and I have a fair degree of familiarity with the traditions of fraternities outside my own. But I'll gladly be educated otherwise.
I didn't ridicule anyone. Saying that I find it odd to include letters of an organization of which one is not a member in a screen name, and saying that I find it hard to imagine guys wearing lavaliers does not constitute ridiculing. Although to be honest, where I live, a guy wearing a lavalier stands a decent chance of being ridiculed. But not by me.
I never said my fraternity has no tradition of lavaliering. We did have a tradition of it, but we decided a few years back, as a fraternity, to end that tradition, at least with lavaliers of our letters.
BTW, since you're both in Flint, would I be correct in assuming you're her boyfriend?
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Sorry for the late reply. Yes, he is my boyfriend. I think this conversation just went too far on an incorrect assumption; when I said that I wanted to see if there was a way for us to "show our connection to the other's fraternity/sorority", I merely meant that whatever we got would show our connection to each other, and, through that, our connection to their org. Not a direct connection. Also, since then, I have learned that 1. I am not able to give him anything with my letters on it (except the written-out words on an event T-shirt or something), so I can't lavalier him anyway, and 2. I am not "connected" to Sigma Nu or allowed to know any of their secrets until I am married to him. However, he just lavaliered me 4 days ago, so I guess I'm on that route.
As for the said ridiculing, I think it was just his overreaction to the way you said those things. He apologized.
Thanks for your thoughts and input. Seeing that you've made quite a lot of posts here on GC, I assume you must have a lot of experience and knowledge of Greek Life. Please be patient with those of us who have less.