My mom has always been very clear that she doesn't care if I get married at all and doesn't reccommend that I do it young (which isn't a problem since I feel strongly that I should not even consider it until I'm confident I know myself and I'm not even there yet at 24). I will say, though, that since I've recently decided my current plan is to teach high school and eventually college...and that's my current boyfriend's plan too...I'm getting the idea that my family might be a little happier if I were dating a future lawyer or doctor.
I don't get it, but I don't knock the women that really do want to get married and have children. And I don't knock trophy wives, either. That's a job. Not one I could handle.
As for transferring only because of an unsuccessful rush, though...to me that either indicates an extreme inability to handle rejection (which isn't healthy) or a massive amount of family/community pressure (which is unfortunate).