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Just read the entire thread. My take:
1) The second post in this thread by Dr. Phil = Agree/Win/Yes etc.
2) The OP never said anything about "paying for school"; how/why does that enter into the discussion and become any sort of factor? We don't know anything about the finances, and it isn't relevant to the OP's question(s). Further, does paying for something give someone the right to control everything? Don't think so. IMO if the daughter is cutting classes and failing everything, then yank the financial backing. I was a crazy party animal (hard to believe, I know) but my GPA rocked, because my dad was footing the undergraduate bills and that was our agreement. My GPA went below a 3.5, school was over for me on his dime. POWERFUL incentive to do well.
3) Chapter Business, folks. Chapter Business. Trust the process. It works.
4) Let Go, OP, Let Go. Your daughter's experience is tuition in the School of Life.
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