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Originally Posted by Alumiyum
However something my mother told me before I joined was that sororities do have some amount of control over your life. You can be sanctioned or expelled for bad/illegal behavior. If Active Amy is drinking underage at her apartment with one other sister who isn't going to tell on her and Nancy New Member is underage, dancing on stage at the bar with a beer in hand, it's going to be Nancy who finds herself in trouble. Fair or not. Discretion is key.
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This is true. But it is her doing it in public that makes her a target for discipline, not her new member status.
I would like to know what "partying" entails as nebbymom wrote in her original post. If that's all it is - a faction of the pledge class sitting around someone's apartment and having a beer - or even a faction of girls going out to a party together - IMO the pledge trainer is way out of line for bitching at them to begin with. Is it rude to divide up like that? Yes. Does it happen all the time (especially at a school w/ ginormous pledge classes)? Yes.