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Originally Posted by greekxgal
OK, i read the whole thread. Although I am bummed, especially about the amount of money I spent, I guess (as hard as it is), I should move on. I think if I hadn't become so obsessed with the idea of joining a sorority and believing I would for sure be invited to one, I wouldn't be so upset.
I'm going to try to join our AEPhi colony and see how informal recruitment with them works out.
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I am sorry that you are upset and hurting. But I want to caution you about "trying to join (our) AEPhi colony" as that is not how the process works. If anything, from all accounts colony member selection is even more rigorous because the colony wants to take the very top, outstanding new members to build a successful foundation for the future.
Perhaps you can take a step back from the situation and let things cool off. As a wise GC member wrote just today "build a bridge and move on" (paraphrasing). I wish you good luck in the future, whatever that brings.