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Originally Posted by lala2005
Okay I do a lot of things without him with the exception of parties/clubs like that, and no he doesn't do stuff like that without me.
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Originally Posted by 33girl
Trust us older and wiser peeps - if you both cut yourself off from doing fun social things, you are both going to be miserable.
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As one of the older and wiser peeps . . . well, older anyway . . . and as a guy, I agree completely. If he has a problem with you going to a party or club without him, the problem is not the party or the club. And if he doesn't have a problem with it, why make it a problem for you? There's nothing at all disrespectful about it.
Maybe I'm way off, but it seems like you might be missing out on bonding experiences with your sisters and then blaming the lack of a bond on defects in your chapter compared to the chapter-that-might-have-been.
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Originally Posted by lala2005
I go to parties with my best friends and without him, it's frat parties and clubs I don't like going without him... haha is that still bad?
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I think so. It's only disrespectful if you go to parties and act like you don't have a boyfriend.