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Originally Posted by guard_girl
I don't like to ask people on my campus because I feel like it is say oh oh oh shirt me shirt me and I find that distasteful. I feel the sorority should get a sense from me that I want to join them and that they should want me the same way.
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Well, we don't have a mind reading course in our pledging programs.
You have to let members know to SOME degree that you'd be interested, because can you imagine being on their side and not being sure of the reception you'd get? (I'm envisioning sorority members walking up to a girl, the girl having NO interest, and throwing the shirt on the ground and spitting on it. LOL.)
You can ask sorority members that you're friends with, just in the course of a normal conversation, "oh, how did recruitment go this semester?" If they change the subject quickly and abruptly, that means you ain't gettin' in and you should just drop it. If they chat with you for a while about it, that's a good sign. Show that you're interested in what they're saying and their sorority in general.