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Rituals are a side effect of a close bond. If you had nothing to do with it, then you have nothing to do with the ritual.
If I was the last member of a dying organization, the ritual dies with me. It's just kind of like actual shared secrets between very close friends. If everything about it is dead, it is dead, period.
As for sharing stuff with your SO -- well, you wouldn't tell your brothers/sisters your SOs deepest secrets, so why would you tell your SO your fraternity/sorority's most sacred secrets?
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