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I don't know what school you are at, but recs may be a really big deal, and you only had them for a few chapters.
Also, is there any COB happening right now? I read back through your thread, and you seem pretty open-minded, so if any of the chapters did not make quota, maybe you could discreetly get on your lists. Again, I have no idea what school you are at, so I have no idea if this is really an option for you at the moment.
Finally, if your school is competitive, the chapters are only allowed a limited number of invitations, and as much as they want the best girls, they also need to maximize their returns. I won't get too mathy, but the bottom line is that they often choose the girl who is a sure thing over someone who isn't clearly interested in their chapter. So, you should show interest everywhere, and as discussed elsewhere on GC, don't tell them if you are a legacy somewhere else, concerned about finances, etc.
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