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Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby
Well, we all know what school she is at, and bid day was today, so hopefully it all worked out for her and she'll come back with the rest of the story.
VandalSquirrel, there's no reason to make her feel bad for her observations. She didn't see any non-white women in a chapter. She didn't say they were racist or bad women or anything else, just that they didn't seem diverse. Totally her right to post that, especially when we all sit and beg for stories from PNM's.
Also, I think she is doing a very mature job, up to this point, of considering all of her options. Second invitational is always the WORST round of cuts, and she kept her head up and took another look at a chapter that had not been her favorite earlier on. That's to be commended.
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If I was trying to make her feel bad, I would have done so, and I could have been insulting and nasty to her. I was mentioning why she may not have seen them, and perhaps to change her definition a bit. If people post to tell women to be open minded about a chapter and they couldn't have met all women who (play the tuba, dress like Thundercats, are goat cheese connoisseurs) they have something in common with, I'm not suggesting anything out of the ordinary that is told to PNMs all the time.
I don't beg for stories from PNMs so don't even try and put it on me when people don't come back and post. If someone doesn't want to know what other people think, they shouldn't put it on the internet.