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Best advice I can give you is forget about your favorite group. You didn't make it into that group so focusing on them will only cause you heartache and ruin your chances of finding a place in the group that gave you a bid.
Realize right now that recruitment is the most fake and contrived environment that does NOT in anyway reflect what life in a sorority actually is like. Seriously, do you think that all the sisters stand and the door and chant every time you come to the house for a meeting? Having a recruitment conversation can be really awkward. Real conversations don't happen that way. You also probably met only at most a 10th of the women in your new chapter. Even if you'd joined your favorite group, you really were only joining because you knew a small percentage of the members. Go out and meet more of the women. Meet the new members in your pledge class. There WILL be members who you will find things that you have in common. The key is to give yourself the chance to make the connections without sabotaging yourself by continuing to wish for the other chapter. That possibility is gone so leave it behind you.
Good luck!
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One Motto, One Badge, One Bond and Singleness of Heart!
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