[FSUZeta]

fsugreek, congratulations on delta gamma!!

can you do a bit of a comparison for us? for example:

freshman year i did not have many recs. sophomore year i made sure that i had a rec.(sometimes more than one per house) for each house.

i got involved in "x" activities on campus as a freshman and thru "123" organization i met many sorority women and developed friendships with a couple. they invited me over a couple of times for formal dinner and i got to meet more members of their sororities.

i kept up my grades and had a very competitive gpa. i made the deans list spring semester and was invited to join a freshman honorary.

i volunteered at a local charity, through which i met more sorority women.

i was more comfortable going thru recruitment a second time, because i knew what to expect.

i was careful when i went out with friends to always keep control of myself and was careful what i put up on my facebook page. i kept it classy.

these are all things that we advise girls to keep in mind, if recruitment doesn't work out for them the first time. i just wonder if you did any of these things to help your situation.