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SophieAlexa, first: deep breath, and a comforting hug. I'm shaking my head in disbelief and feeling your hurt (empathy).
Second: yes, it happens: mistakes, that is. Computers are not perfect. Humans aren't either. And if this scenario is just as you wrote, then there MUST be a solution. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and walk into Greek Life Office and do not leave until you meet with the director. Be brave, calm, and polite, but assert yourself.
I don't know your campus (please do not post it online, IMO, for privacy reasons) and am assuming that you are talking about NPC sororities and not locals. If you attended three preference parties ("final parties" as you put it) and this is NPC, then there is a resolution.
At least one of those three chapters is probably thinking "Huh? What happened?" as well.
Thinking of you and sending you courage and strength.
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"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
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