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i was not in the same experience, but my suitemates were.
My one suitemate, Sarah really wanted to get into the same sorority as her roomate Courtney. Courtney was like you, gatorgirl, she wanted to make the decision for herself.
So in my suite we struck a deal that we wouldn't tell anyone else where we got invited back to, so on bid day, if we were ment to be sisters, then it was ment to be, but we would still be friends.
On bid day, courtney and my roomate traci both became Phi Mu's and I became an AZD. Sarah unfortunatly did not get a bid because she Intentionally single preferenced (suicide) the one sorority that she swore she and courtney were going to get into, and it wasn't Phi Mu.
After Sarah cried and freaked out for a bit, and was a little hurt and angry at herself, bc she didn't even really like the girls in the sorority that she put down, she jut put it down because she thought courtney would have chosen that one.
The following year she was offered a bid to colonize a new sorority that was coming to campus, and now she is a Sigma Kappa.
And everyone stayed pretty much friends after that.
-Maggie
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