Thank you all for your support!! I am so happy that I was thinking the right way the whole time about making my own choice. I think that she is nervous about going to such a big school, originally she had always wanted to go to a smaller school. Rush is already stressful enough without having your best friend pressuring you! Thank you again for the advice, it has really give me some confidence and now I will know how to react better when she brings up the subject.