[southbymidwest]

Could it also be that your fraternity is small in number and the sororities are large in number of members, like 25 in your fraternity and 100 in the sorority? If so, can you double up with another fraternity?

Do you participate in the sororities' philanthropies, like for example, basketball, mud tug, corn hole, hockey tournaments? Participate in as many of them as you possibly can and you will be more visible.

Be nice, be nice, be nice. But don't be icky. And there can be a fine line there...my daughter's favorite (and a lot of her sisters) fraternity has a group of really good guys in it. They do a lot of stuff with them, and hang with them a lot. Girls talk, even between chapters, and consequently, the guys in this fraternity are popular with many of the sororities.

Be proud of your fraternity, square your shoulders back, be clean and decently groomed (and keep your house clean), project CONFIDENCE, and girls will notice.

Are you neighbors with any sororities? Go over and introduce yourselves. Bring them flowers. It may take a while, (it can be compared to planting seeds) but surely the suggestions given in this thread above have to move you in the right direction. And keep it up. Good luck!