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Originally Posted by Barbie's_Rush
If someone turns down a bid in formal, can she even register for or go to COB events? She would not be eligible to accept a bid until next year's formal recruitment, so I don't see why sororities should have to extend their time, energy and money on entertaining someone who isn't even eligible to accept the few bids they might have available to give.
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It depends on how COB is run, it's possible she could show up or get invited to an event or two, but be "released" (not invited back, or told why) because of her status. Not every chapter would necessarily know whether she signed a card or not. So it would come down to whether Greek Life has everyone sign up centrally and then monitors the list or not.
But I think it would be unethical for her to go to COB events unless she's open about the fact that she is unavailable until the next fall. While it's possible that a chapter would like her so much they'd be willing to bid her next fall as a "right after recruitment COB" or something, it's not likely at all.