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Old 05-30-2002, 12:40 PM
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These are good questions. Some caveats:

Social: Don't focus too much on the social program - it sends the message that you just want to join a sorority for the guys or the popularity factor. Steer clear of discussing specific fraternities... stick to general questions.

Philanthropy: Do your homework ahead of time and know what the national and/or chapter's philanthropies are (if applicable), and name it when you ask.

Financial: At some schools, asking about financials is a big no-no as it implies that you might not be able to afford dues and fees. Ask your rho chi if it's a "safe" topic; if it isn't, she can probably give you a ballpark figure. YMMV - at my school, not only is it "safe" to ask about financials, each sorority distributed little information sheets with information on dues, new member fees, and house/parlor fees where applicable.

Academics: This is a great topic, since the primary reason you are going to college is to learn. Definitely ask about academic programs, study hours, awards that the chapter has won, etc.
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