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					Originally Posted by victoriana  Really? I wouldn't want to be a part of dirty rushing or whatever, but it's before recruitment...so... maybe?
 Also another thing that is questionable: I have friends in a sorority that I went through informal with last semester, and they are telling me some secrets about recruitment... is this bad??
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 Both the scenarios you've outlined make me uncomfortable.  BUT - I'm not a student at your school, nor a participant in your system.
People talk; I don't know "secrets" about recruitment, but I hope they are not discussing membership selection with you.  THAT is verboten.
I'd be very discreet and careful about my behavior and my actions.  I would not want to be the one that was made an example of, should someone decide to cry "foul."
In the meantime, I'm hoping for a great ending to your story.