so..I am pretty proud of this kid...he had a top 3 based on opinions of others..probably could have gotten bids to these houses...but he really clicked with the group that is rebuilding their chapter, he liked the guys and felt welcomed...I think his other top choice was just rushing so many, so hard..that it may have become overwhelming and he just didn't make the connections he wanted to make.
So the winner is KAPPA SIGMA
and he seems really happy..he got a bid on the second night and is already planning to get involved in their activities tonight, despite having to change other plans.
I have read a lot of these forums, for girls and guys..I am thinking about writing about his experience since I could not find much for the guys..but I do want to say this..if a girl's priorities are girls who dress nice, have a nice house, or are pretty..it may be superficial...but that's HER priorities..so why bash her when she is just trying to relate her experience.
If a guys priorities are athletics and maybe not community service, or partying then those are HIS priorities...they need not be yours..there are plenty of other stories to read on here that people can relate to.
So, I would like to write about his experience but am afraid of the people who feel the need to make snarky comments.....OK BRING EM ON...REALLY LET ME HAVE IT HAHAHA!