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I'm restraining myself, lest I get too emotional and let loose all over the place.

OP, your daughter should be doing research herself, and yes, that involves asking YOU questions about greek life. Times may have changed since you were in school but stories about the "good old" days can be super valuable especially when taken with a grain of salt.

Also, there are many many members of the board who have been through similar situations as you and your daughter. So when YOU post on a message board assuming that everything's just hunky dorey in our lives, remember, someone here might have lost her mother/father/brother to cancer or another illness or suddenly or whatever recently.