[WhatstheRUSH]

Really? I simply asked a question on behalf of my daughter. I apologize if by doing so I broke some unwritten code that only a PNM could ask a question. When you are an over achieving HS student who spends 12+ hours every day at school between your academics (she is #1 in an extremely competitive HS), and your ECs, and then come home and pound homework and spends what little time that is left writing admissions essays, hanging out on GC during the week is simply not going to happen. I guess I misjudged what this forum was about. I have tried to be honest and straight forward and all that has occurred is an attack over why I am asking a question. It has no relevance and is in direct contradiction to what sisterhood should mean in the first place.

BTW...she holds a few key leadership positions in her High School. She is just nervous about getting this all right. And with the reception that has been given on this thread I feel she has a right to worry if this is the state of the greek system today.