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It really upsets me when a girl does not accept her bid. That means that another girl who really wanted to be in XYZ is not there and you are in her place. I understand not suiciding but if you absolutely know you would not accept a bid to a group that wants you then perhaps it would be best to sit in your room alone drowning in your tears than to cause others to be effected including the chapter who was looking forward to greeting you on bid day as a new sister.
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