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I am usually one of the first ones to call out a PNM on her BS of rejecting a chapter she feels is beneath her while crying about being bidless, but I do not feel that is the case here, since our OP is willing to go back to AXO during COB. She knows that AXO will be COBing, and she was upfront about her feelings with the member who preffed her, so theoretically, that member can squash any "she rejected us" concerns. Plus, her sincere interest should show when she goes to a COB event.

I agree with her decision to look at AXO and SDT during COB, since SDT did not participate in formal recruitment. If SDT was participating and cut her, and AXO was the only chapter she had left, in that case, accepting a bid to AXO probably would be the best course of action (and dropping before initiation if she still didn't feel it) because it'd either be AXO or not greek for a whole year anyway.