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I don't know why this thread turned into a pile-on. What kaeb is doing makes perfect sense to me.

She went through a super emotional rush and is aware she may not have been fully open to accept something a great group (AXO) had to offer because her judgement was clouded by getting rejected by groups she thought liked her. She's not going to take a bid just because she can and take it away from someone who really wants it when she's still shellshocked and having doubts. If AXO has changed their minds about her in the intervening week, that's their decision, one that it sounds like kaeb would fully understand.

And I'm not saying this to be bitchy or mean or anything and I'm not trying to offend AXO, but when a chapter is struggling and they invite girls to events it doesn't necessarily mean they do it because they feel the girls are a "good fit." The chapters that she needs to give the "benefit of the doubt" are the ones who cut her because they feel she WOULDN'T have fit. If you can accept that their judgement is right it's easier to look at the options that you still have open.