Did you really feel a connection? Even so, there are other hurdles, such as being in line with the org's values.
Also, you can't just stick to the superficial topics. Just mentioning the weather, classes, etc. won't get you anywhere. You have to dig deeper in order to do that: feelings, motivation, and values.
Or, you may have simply gotten unlucky and chose the four wrong organizations. I mean, I can easily pick four organizations on my campus that I'd never fit into but still contained many cool people that I can talk to and respect as friends, but not as brothers.
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