[Kevin]

Until you're actually in a certain sorority you won't really know what you have to work with as far as selling your parents on the idea.

This is one of those times where as well-meaning as your folks are they don't know what's best for you -- you do.

Once you become a member of a sorority then they will probably be able to suggest methods to help you with your situation. I served as the Marshal (Pledge Educator) a couple of years back and actually called parents that had issues with our fraternity.

They're looking out for your best interests and unfortunately whatever information they are working with (preconceived notions, past experiences) is wrong. They'll probably need something pretty strong to change their minds.

Best of luck with rush though!

LHT
Kevin