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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
LOL True. He's also the Nupe in the red shirt. It's the same brother. I won't debate with the Sigmas about which organization was associated with the cane first. If there are some Sigmas who believe that canes were associated with their organization first, then that's cool. They're entitled to their thoughts.
But good point, Nupe.
Thanks for answering my question. I can see that it's a touchy subject for you, but I just wanted to elaborate on what you said. About what's in bold. If it's not that hard for you to dislike them, to me, it seems like you already have somewhat of a dislike towards them from the start, based on your own experiences.
I agree with the rest. I think it's silly and childish. When I was an undergrad, it didn't make me a difference one way or the other if an SGRho acknowledged me in that way or not, really.
I'm speaking in general here, but (to me), I think it's one thing to say I don't like the Kappas I've met, or I don't like some of the experiences I've had with some of the Kappas I've come in contact with...it's another thing to make a generalization and say I don't like Kappas, because......
It's nothing wrong with disliking someone or some people in another organization. As far as far as I'm concerned, there are even members you're not going to like in your own organization. I just don't think it's cool to associate a member you (in general) have never met with members you've (in general) met and dislike.
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It's actually not that deep anymore (only when I think of my undergrad days). Of course I was generalizing (don't we all?!) and I did say we had a love/hate relationship. I still feel this way about y'all. I just love to hate you.
But seriously, being in an alumnae chapter that's very active in our local NPHC, we are around y'all enough (more than enough for my taste but whatever).