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I encourage any member who has a bad experience with these conversations to call their headquarters to discuss the issue. I don't think this needs to be an accusatory conversation but rather a discussion to improve the process. If the program needs to be abolished, so be it, but it may just be that the people making these calls need to be better educated on how to make a proper call to a sister to relay this kind of news. I'm sure that once you give the news, many people feel pressured to give a "Why." (Not even by the sister, but a personal feeling of pressure because they feel bad about having to deliver such news.) This is not appropriate, since any reason will just end up being hurtful no matter how reasonable it sounds to the person giving the reason. The point of the call is ONLY to give the sister a heads up so she is prepared to council her PNM, not to explain reasoning behind the release.
AoPiMommy...don't worry about it! Alpha Love!
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