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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
I agree that the OP probably didn't have malicious intent starting this thread. A particular event inspired it, but I don't think the OP was wanting us to pick apart that event (or chapter) as much as start a discussion.
I would think that a good measure is (rather than "WWFD? - What would Founders do? Or even alums/moms/grandmothers) ...would you (barring gender-specific details) do this on a first date? Clearly, the answer is going to vary, and that's ok. That's where chapter and campus dynamics come into play.
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Agree, "what would our founders do?" is a horrible standard to go by. Because they wouldn't be doing 90% of the things the average female college student does, from wearing jeans to going to bars.
I like for actives to think about how what they do reflects on the international organization...as long as they remember that they
are in college, and some members
will make mistakes, and that's ok.
It does appear from the posts made by chapter members that generally speaking this wouldn't be crossing the line.