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I agree that the OP probably didn't have malicious intent starting this thread. A particular event inspired it, but I don't think the OP was wanting us to pick apart that event (or chapter) as much as start a discussion.
I would think that a good measure is (rather than "WWFD? - What would Founders do? Or even alums/moms/grandmothers) ...would you (barring gender-specific details) do this on a first date? Clearly, the answer is going to vary, and that's ok. That's where chapter and campus dynamics come into play.
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