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Originally Posted by mikewozowski
darn - i had a long post typed out and i lost it.
als463 - i think you are being a little harsh. or worse.
if a girl goes thru the whole process and ends up only with a match to one sorority that was never on her list of preferences, then i don't think you should be so judgemantal and calling her a spoiled brat.
the process is supposed to be mutual selection. if you only end up with a choice that you really didn't choose, then it really wasn't mutual, was it?
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I think what she was getting at is that you have to be willing to give the chapter a chance.
As I've said, if a PNM feels very uncomfortable at a house, then fine. If she had a good time at all, she should try it out. That's my opinion, anyway.