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Originally Posted by NewCollegeMom
This is the last round. If she didn't go to the last party she was going to withdraw, not just skip the party. In my heart of hearts, I hope she did go and give them a chance.
My understanding (and I might be wrong because I have very limited knowledge) is that if she signed the card tonight and got bids tomorrow and she said no to the bids she couldn't COB?
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The issue here is that most of the chapters probably won't have COB, and even some did, what's the likelihood of her favorites participating in COB?
Just musing...I wonder if it's fruitful to consider COB a "backup plan" while you're still in Formal Recruitment? It takes you out of the process mentally, and you're likely not giving proper consideration to the chapters you have left.
Anyway, it's her choice. Just be aware that COB is no guarantee, and her dropping now just so she can COB is not a terrific plan.