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Old 08-20-2010, 03:54 PM
Alumiyum Alumiyum is offline
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Originally Posted by NewCollegeMom View Post
This is the last round. If she didn't go to the last party she was going to withdraw, not just skip the party. In my heart of hearts, I hope she did go and give them a chance.

My understanding (and I might be wrong because I have very limited knowledge) is that if she signed the card tonight and got bids tomorrow and she said no to the bids she couldn't COB?
That is correct. If she signs the card she's bound for a year. I really think she should go to the parties, but afterwords if she truly can't see herself there, understands there might not be a COB, and is ok with the fact that she will have to watch her friends run on Bid Day, she should withdraw.

Many times it's completely possible to be happy in a chapter you didn't see yourself in to begin with, but occasionally the PNM and the chapter just have no chemistry at all.
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