Dear Mr Self Appointed Guru:
If you had an ounce of reading comprehension, you would have figured out that I am NOT an Alpha Phi. (Not that they aren't awesome.
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"Being approached" is one thing. Actually considering it is another. I might "be approached" by a gross dude in a bar, but that doesn't mean I want to have anything to do with him.
If there is something that members of a group don't want to share on a thread, be respectful and do the same. If you have any questions about whether something is or is not public information, contact the moderator of the Alpha Phi forum.