I noticed a few people mentioning the stress and such of participating in recruitment on the other side for the first time. What surprised you the most about recruitment the first time you were participating as an active? Obviously I'm not asking for secrets about membership selection and such. But pretty much anything else...
A couple of things come to mind for me...
How disappointed I could be when a rush crush didn't come back. I mean you only meet these women for a few minutes a few times, but it can be really disappointing when they don't return.
How incredibly rude some rushees could be when they obviously did not want to be at your house. My mother taught me good manners and being rude is just wrong. Obviously not everyone feels the same way!
What do you remember?
