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Not clear on whether the OP actually attended pref or dropped beforehand.
If she dropped before attending the pref party, shame on her for not giving that chapter a chance. They were the only one who gave her a chance, and if she would've given them the same courtesy perhaps she's be pretty happy right now.
No one advocates joining a group that you absolutely do not like. However, most everyone (at least everyone thinking logically...) advocates seeing recruitment through pref. A lot of things can change your mind.
And at such a competitive greek school, formal recruitment freshman year could be the PNM's only legitimate shot.
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