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I tend to agree with the above, sometimes cuts don't hurt because you loved that chapter (you may have only liked them a little bit) but sometimes it hurts just because in the mind of an 18-year-old freshman, that cut means "They don't like me!" or "I don't fit in!" or "I'm not cool enough."
Those are tough feelings, especially if a PNM maybe comes from a HS environment where she was very popular, Homecoming Queen, won a lot of major awards, etc. This may be the first time she has ever felt "unliked" or "uncool."
Granted, we as adults know that recruitment won't be the last time she'll feel that way, but at 18, you sometimes don't see that.
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