[Miriverite]

(If the OP was seeking advice rather than just sparking discussion)

It was more of a discussion thing for me, since I have had to deal with termination of membership before in many organizations, not just GLOs, and most of the time it has been handled fine. I am curious, however, as to what others do or say in such a situation. This was actually intended for "all lanes", so DrPhil's response was just as interesting as those of you who were addressing solely NPC's. It would be great to get some input from other orgs like professional/service frats... or social frats in general. Obviously I'm not an expert in how all your orgs are run; this is some great conversation and I'd love to keep it going.

In terms of giving back all letters, etc. I also find that a common courtesy. If you're not going to remain a member of my organization, then you have no right to wear my letters. It's like participating in the qualifying rounds for Miss America, deciding to drop out, and then continuing to wear your sash as if you were continuing. It's misleading and disrespectful to those who -are- continuing in the chapter.