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Old 08-14-2010, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Miriverite View Post
I understand fully that sometimes Greek life -isn't- for everyone. My question was more geared towards, "How do we, as members or exec officers, deal with someone who cites this reason for quitting, and then does not or refuses to elaborate?" What questions should we ask, what actions should we take? There have been some great responses thus far - thanks and keep 'em coming! =)
See my above post.

I don't want to get too nebby as to different groups' operations, but I'd guess that national offices require more than "it just wasn't for me" as a self-termination excuse. We had a woman try to self-terminate and she was denied because she didn't have valid reasons. If they don't tell you why, then the chapter shouldn't sign off on the termination/should request HQ doesn't approve it. Yes, it sounds a little blackmaily but I believe if someone's quitting they should show a little courtesy and tell you if it's them not you, rather than make you think the sorority's to blame.
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