I HAD to respond to your post! You are singing the same song that (most) women have been singing since the beginning of time! However, I feel that good men and women are all over the place. You just have to know how to look and where to look. The problem is that most people don't know what to look for.
(Most) men want women to look like supermodels and be a dime from the jump. Problem is, most women do not fit the supermodel mold. And some of the ones that do fall into that "whore/hoochie/golddigger" catergory that men complain about. Then, the sad part is that the men want the women to be top of the line while they look like the bottom of the barrel! On the flip side, (most) women want the knight in shining armor type brother. He has to be tall, handsome, rich, educated, etc. etc. The problem with that is some of these women do not have anything to bring to the table.
We all have to learn to look under all the superficial things and look for what is on the inside. I know that I am not a dime (yet!
), but I'm not Garbage Pal Kid. I don't look for the brother that every woman is after because I know how to look at that is on the inside. I don't mind geting with the brother who doesn't have it all as long as I know that he has goals and is working towards them. Looks aren't a big issue. You can always work on that. Just show that you are confident about what you want and don't settle for anything else. I KNOW that I am a good woman and there are plenty more out there. Stop looking with just your eyes....