1. Be realistic. Chapters can only give bids to a small number of PNMs even though they may think that you are terrific -- which YOU ARE, numerically they aren't able to at this time!
2. There is life after Recruitment ends whether you are given/accept a bid or not.
3. Make decisions based on where you would feel the happiest/most comfortable even though every female in your family history is a XX or XXX.
3. TAKE A DEEP BREATHE, LET IT OUT, AND REPEAT OFTEN!
