The girl is a close friend of mine who I have known since HS. I put friend in quotes because we've been distancing and she's changed alot since we went off to college, and most will admitt it hasnt been the best of changes.Theres alot that goes with it. I dont know what really triggered the question, like i said its just something that came to my mind when I was watching something, but something that I have heard alot about before. She joined her house her junior year and we graduated in May. But I know alot of people who know people who've been in all 4 years and are said to be a little too into it. It was just a pondering thought I had in my little head at 11pm and no place to go on a Saturday Night