I'm sure that there are people who could join 2 groups because of extenuating circumstances and do it respectfully. However, they've been far outweighed by the people who DON'T do it respectfully.
I haven't seen anything in any of your posts where you say that you would discuss this with your sisters from your first college, or that they feel bad that you are in the situation you're in, or that you would like to keep them as friends even if there was a way you could terminate your membership in the sorority. You just keep yammering on about "a sorority is the best way to meet girls your age."
You just want to kick the women who offered you sisterhood and friendship to the curb because it's inconvenient for you. Sorry, but even if you could do this, from what you've written, I don't think you'd deserve that chance.
p.s. It's not guaranteed that you would get a bid to your mother's sorority, or ANY sorority, at your new school.
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