[FSUZeta]

your name is fine.

as i said before, don't let her get to you. just be yourself, smile, be friendly and interested(even in that house)-as others have said, her opinion may not be valued at all by her sisters. even if it is, there are other sororities to consider.

i can tell you that in my day, we would not have put any weight in anything a member of another sorority said about a pnm-nor did we ever talk about rush or rushees at all with members of other groups. you never know if there is something personal going on between the pnm and the sorority girl, or if they are in love with her and want to do all they can to ensure that she pledges there.