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Originally Posted by perfectinpurple
Don't listen to them! I'm begging you! When I went through recruitment I had a VERY unsupportive boyfriend. I almost dropped out mid-recruitment because I couldn't stand all the things he was saying about the person I was "becoming". He called sorority girls/me everything under the sun; slutty, stupid, fake, paying for friends etc.
Flash forward 3 years and he's gone, but the friends I made during the process and by being in a sorority are still here and support me in whatever I do! I know it's hard not to listen to the opinions of others but you need to at least give yourself a chance and go ahead and give recruitment a chance.
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Thankfully my boyfriend is so supportive! One of the best people in my life right now. He was really concerned in the beginning that it would ruin our relationship because I'd be around my new sisters so much, but he's come to understand that it's something I really want so he knows it'll make me happy.
And yeah, I know. I'm trying SO hard to ignore everything this guy tells me. I'm trying to look past everything superficial and anything even remotely close to 'rumor-like' and give everyone a fair chance. I think it'll be easier once recruitment actually starts because then I'll see that the stereotypes are wrong..
I just wish time would hurry up and pass already! Lol!