[sanjiyan69]

I was the only Asian in the active chapter in my fraternity (we had a few other Asians before my time). I fitted in just fine and no worries.

With you ladies, I believe it's a different dynamic. Have you had any luck hanging out with other girls in your pledge-class? start with that and then ask everyone else to hang out. If you still have problems...There should be someone in your organization (maybe someone in recruitment or talk to your president) and see what they say.

good luck.