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Ms. President:

I just finished a year as chapter president and I feel your pain. It is very difficult.

A few things I learned:

1. Keep your friends, family outside of the Sorority as venting posts (as much as you are allowed to) and hang out with non-Greek friends. It is a welcome break.

2. Talk to the other Presidents on the campus. They will likely have the same issues.

3. It DOES get better. Everyone blames you when any little thing goes wrong, but stay firm and fair. It happens to nearly everyone in the office, but after they get used to your style of leadership, they will adjust.

4. Invite your closest friends in the chapter out for lunch/dinner/drinks as normal. They might be intimidated or they may worry you are just too busy. Reach out to them.

5. Admit when you DO make a mistake. It calms people to hear you admit and apologize and they will know you admit your mistakes, making them respect you far more.

I was in the same boat as you. I also felt like turning in my badge at times. Keep going! You'll do great.